The old joke: “What’s the difference between a Straight-guy, & a Bi-guy?”; -Has an answer that has an air or truth: “A Few Beers!”
The fact is that LOTS of guys (especially those who party), -are open to being tendered on by another guy IF (say “IF”) the guy doing the tendering is the “right-kind” of guy.
And hooking up with a so-called “STR8 GUY” can have awesome long-term rewards.
But, fewer than 20% of the guys in the so-called “GAY community” are the “right kind” of guys.
Are you? Here’s a general overview:
A) If you’re the kind of guy that nobody would guess was into guys merely by observing you interact with others.
B) If you’re the kind of guy who keeps himself in good shape (usually at a gym -home or otherwise).
C) If you’re the kind of guy who has a lot of empathy about what guys want or don’t want to have happen. This trait means that you exercise discretion.
D) If you’re the kind of guy who respects masculinity & would never ask another guy to compromise his.
E) If you’re the kind of guy who believes that men of good character NEVER ArseFukk other men.
F) If you’re the kind of guy who values Friendship more than Getting-0ff.
G) If you’re the kind of guy who doesn’t “D0″ just ‘anyone’.
H) If you’re the kind of guy who greatly values privacy for yourself & others.
I) If you’re the kind of guy who does NOT “tolerate everything”; -but stands “against foolishness if it’s in the name of mere fun”.
J) If you’re the kind of guy that a dude who’s incapacitated from the party -knows will not hurt, rob nor demean him.
K) If you know how to give a massage that can subdue a guy w. pleasure.
L) If you know how to turn up the intimacy -casually without insinuating that doing so is connected whatsoever with the term “gay”.
There is a rapidly growing men’s movement for men who love men/too but do NOT relate to the term “GAY” whatsoever.
This men’s movement is all about love, trust & respect of masculinity.
It is called “g0y” -spelled w. a zer0. G00GLE ‘em to find out more about a hook-up technique called “G0YDAR” (NOT “gaydar”)!